Red carpet moralityHollywood is in the midst of putting its best and brightest up on a pedestal. Should the rest of us?
![]() We are a society that values the beautiful and famous, regardless of whether they are people we should emulate. Take, for instance, the aforementioned “Brangelina.” This is a couple that has six children; and according to Ms. Jolie, intend to have more. The world is ga-ga over the good deeds that Mr. Pitt and Ms. Jolie perform. They are building houses in flood ravaged New Orleans, Ms. Jolie is a UN Ambassador for refugees, Pitt helps raise funds and awareness for people in Darfur; and on top of all their charity work, the couple still finds time to have six children and make movie after movie. Surely, the rest of us mere mortals should be in awe of them.
These are not people we should be looking up to, folks. And yet, that is exactly what we do. Nor are Brad and Angelina alone in their disregard for morals. Heath Ledger recently, albeit posthumously, won an award for his work in “Batman Returns”. Just a year after his death, his reputation as an actor has been elevated beyond what it was while he was still alive. We have been told repeatedly what a wonderful person and actor he was; that he was a fantastic dad to his daughter. We are setting the stage for young men to look up to and imitate his life, all the while forgetting that the reason Mr. Ledger died before his 30th birthday is that he overdosed from a lethal combination of six different drugs. Yes, the final autopsy report concluded that Mr. Ledger's death was accidental, but it also goes on to state that it was caused from the “...abuse of prescription medications.”. While I will not accuse Heath Ledger of being a drug addict (since there appears to be some debate on the topic and I do not wish to set myself up for a libel suit), I will go out on a limb and suggest that his lifestyle is not one that should be copied.
The constant barrage of media coverage is enough to make me want to throw out my television. The every day lives of celebrities are not news. Barack Obama being elected the first black president of the United States is news. The failure of banks in America, Britain and Germany is news. The escalation of violence between Israeli Defense Forces and Hamas terrorists is news. Jennifer Aniston going out to dinner with her latest boyfriend is not. And following a never-ending stream of “news” reports on the bad behaviour and poor choices of the rich and famous glamorizes that lifestyle for adolescents and young adults. Cheating on your husband or wife? No problem; just cite “irreconcilable differences” on the divorce papers and you are free and clear to move on to the next conquest. Got caught driving under the influence? Don't worry; while your lawyer gets you a reduced sentence, your publicist will book you on every talk show so you can crack a joke or two while you ask (however insincerely) for forgiveness. And we will give it to you. Why? Because you are rich and famous and so you must be better than we are. Once upon a time, I used to eagerly anticipate every award show, with the Academy Awards being the king of the season. I too, was one of those who sat in front of the television set for hours, living vicariously through the beautiful people on screen. If only I was one of them, life would be so much better, I thought. Thankfully, those years have passed. Along the way, I have come to realize that we are to blame for the leniency that is granted to celebrities. If we stopped lapping up stories about them, stopped letting them off the hook when they do something wrong, maybe they would start behaving better. Until then, we have two choices; listen to the entertainment industry's on going narcissism or turn off the TV. I choose the latter, what about you? Barbara Lilley is a writer in Ottawa, Canada. She blogs at Don’t Stand on the Watermelon.
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